God Pill Classic Maxims
This collection is divided into EIGHT SECTIONS.
For convenience, click a section below to navigate directly to it.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
SECTION V: Personal Development
SECTION VI: Marriage/LTR & Family
SECTION VIII: The Reality Check Formula
“It doesn’t matter how smart or reasonable you are. If the opposition is too stupid to understand, you’ll never win. So do not speak in the hearing of fools, for they will despise the good sense of your words. If Jesus couldn’t convince them, neither will you.”
— The God Pill
SECTION I: Christian Red Pill
1.
Satan’s greatest weapon is man’s ignorance of God’s Word; a woman’s greatest weapon is man’s ignorance of his worth.
2.
Feminism is nothing more than a gynocentric attempt to usurp authority over God’s natural and divine order.
3.
Women who hate conventional masculinity and biblical gender roles are, by definition, misandrists.
4.
In today’s feminocentric society, a man better acquiesce to his wife’s wishes; after all, happy wife, happy God. Right?
5.
Sometimes, God sends your ex back into your life to see if you’re still stupid.
6.
Biblically, many men with access to many women were considered heroes, but many women found with many men were considered harlots.
7.
A woman for everyone is a woman for no one; men throughout time and across cultures have always valued purity over promiscuity.
8.
Make an honest woman of her.
9.
Men like to look at a woman’s nakedness because they aren’t supposed to see it; women like to expose their nakedness because they aren’t supposed to show it.
10.
Most men operate under the delusion that a woman in a church building is a virtuous woman by default.
11.
Most women in the church have a sexual history because most women have a sexual history.
12.
Better to date a lost girl than a lukewarm Christian… or you can spit both of them out of your mouth.
13.
False professors are more dangerous than authentic deniers.
14.
Heed her actions, not her words. You will know her by her fruit.
15.
The Bible warns that the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil, but for women, it is their beauty. Why? Because beauty is currency.
16.
Her beauty is the root of all kinds of evil.
17.
Beauty will cover a multitude of sins.
18.
The last will be first, and the first last, even in the bedroom.
19.
A woman must respect you before she can love you. But if she can’t respect you, how will she love you? And if she can’t love you, how will she honor you?
20.
Fear leads to respect. Respect leads to love. And perfect love casts out fear.
(See 1 John 4:18)
21.
Boundaries do not equal bondage.
22.
If you let your woman create you in her own image, she will despise her own creation.
23.
A woman needs a rock to lean on; she doesn’t want to be the rock you lean on.
24.
Often, women will find your inward man as unappealing as your outward man.
25.
Just as your external works reflect your inward faith, your outward appearance reflects your inward alpha.
26.
To the alpha, all things are alpha; but to the beta, nothing is alpha, but both their minds and their bodies are lacking.
(See Titus 1:15)
27.
An alpha’s presentation always aligns with his character, and his character always aligns with his convictions.
28.
A lack of fruit proves you have no alpha root.
29.
You shall make your mission, not your woman, the focus. When you make your woman the focus, she becomes an idol, which is sin.
30.
A genuine Christian is desirable by default, since his highest priority isn’t women—but God.
31.
If it’s all about your mission—and you’re all about God—then frankly, it’s all about God.
32.
Be a man after God’s own heart, not a man after hers.
33.
If God is your validation, He becomes your vindication.
34.
Women are fleeting; God is sufficient.
35.
He must increase, but she must decrease.
“Many unassuming and well-intentioned Christian men fall into temptation and a snare due to a lack of awareness. But awareness is imperative. We are to be in the world, not of it. But we are still in it. Our adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Remember that.”
— The God Pill
36.
There are God’s values, and there are the world’s values. Even if you disagree with the world’s values, it behooves you to understand them so you can maneuver quickly, efficiently, and effectively in the Fallen Order.
37.
You shouldn’t measure a perfect God by His imperfect representatives, and you shouldn’t measure Red Pill truth by its unbalanced adherents.
38.
Blame the application, not the information.
39.
Discernment is critical, and awareness is imperative.
40.
Rather than look at the Red Pill as unbiblical for what it teaches, look at it as biblical for what it describes.
41.
Christianity is Red Pill, but Red Pill is not Christianity.
42.
Christian Red Pill truth will appeal to a strong mind or offend a weak one.
43.
The truth will set you free, but first, it will make you angry.
44.
The world tells us comforting lies, but we need uncomfortable truths.
45.
What’s more dangerous than believing something without evidence is rejecting the evidence in favor of what you believe.
46.
If your mind is already made up, my job is not to convince you; it is only to deliver the message.
“You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority. When you make your woman the focus, she becomes an idol, which is sin. But if it’s all about your mission—and you’re all about God—then frankly, it’s all about God. So be a man after God’s own heart, not a man after hers. Women are fleeting, but God is sufficient.”
— The God Pill
SECTION II: Red Pill
47.
Women despise how little it takes to make men happy.
48.
Men are taught to do what’s right for women; women are taught to do what’s right for themselves.
49.
You don’t have to teach a woman to be her own mental point of origin; solipsism already solved that problem for her.
50.
Men look for reasons to qualify women; women look for reasons to disqualify men.
51.
Men play to win; women play not to lose.
52.
Making a woman aware of the game will not change the game.
53.
To play the game, you must be aware of the game.
“You have to learn how to talk and not be a nerd. You can’t be nervous. You must watch your energy; you can’t be too thirsty. You must know how to say the right things and lead the conversation… I have just described game.”
— The God Pill
54.
Good looks will help you succeed, but you don’t need good looks to succeed.
55.
Looks may get an interview, but they don’t guarantee a job.
56.
When it comes to your morning routine, it should be as short as possible but as long as necessary. Women don’t want to date men prettier than them.
57.
Arousing men are always attractive, but attractive men are not always arousing.
58.
If she doesn’t feel, she won’t look at you. But if you make her feel, she won’t care how you look.
59.
It’s only a problem for her if it’s a problem for you.
“If you don’t have a Superman jawline, Thanos chin, warrior skull, hunter eyes, Neanderthal brow ridge, Spartan body, cannonball delts, tree trunk neck, cobra lats, turtle shell traps, Hulk Hogan pythons, and James Earl Jones’s baritone, you’re doomed. I have just described the Black Pill.”
— The God Pill
60.
Most men think they need a woman to feel like a man, but they need to feel like a man to get a woman.
61.
Context makes one’s actions beneficial or detrimental. It’s not about the actions; it’s about what-where-when-why-how.
62.
A woman is a reflection of her man. If you lead faithfully, she will follow accordingly.
63.
Strong leadership equals a strong reflection, but poor leadership equals a poor reflection.
64.
Be “the man,” and your woman will follow.
65.
Women only care about one thing: “What have you done for me lately?”
66.
You’re only as good as your last impression.
67.
A man is an expendable commodity with utility. If the utility value decreases, it’s over.
68.
Girlfriends do not get wife benefits; husbands do not get boyfriend benefits.
69.
Cornelius always pays for Chad’s sloppy seconds.
70.
If she cheated with you, she’d cheat on you.
71.
If you’re not the best, she’ll get with the rest.
72.
Men cheat for variety but usually return to their woman; women cheat with intention and usually leave their man.
73.
With men, mood follows mind. With women, mind follows mood.
74.
Women operate on feelings, not facts; they operate on emotions, not logic.
75.
Change her mood, not her mind.
76.
Women can’t distinguish between reality and something they vividly imagine.
77.
The opposite of female delusion is not male delusion; it’s male reality.
78.
Women like to sit around and toast marshmallows; men like to eat them.
79.
Women can’t tell you what they want; they can only tell you what they think they want.
“Never ask a woman for dating advice. Of course, a woman will tell you the things that paint women in a positive light: namely, that women want a man who’s kind, loyal, compromising, reliable, honest, caring, etc. But these attributes are predictable and boring and will never stimulate the hamster wheel arousal side of her lizard brain. What women neglect to tell you is that they also want a man who is unpredictable, uncompromising, unapologetic, dark, and sexy. Remember: women can’t tell you what they want; they can only tell you what they think they want.”
— The God Pill
80.
Give her exactly what she wants… and exactly what she doesn’t yet know she wants.
81.
If a woman is not initially appealing to a man, nothing will change his mind; if a man is not initially appealing to a woman, she could still change her mind.
82.
Make her feel like a lady, and she will be a lady for you.
83.
Women care about how other women respond to a man; men don’t care how other men respond to a woman.
84.
Whether or not you are her best viable option isn’t the point. As long as it’s her subjective belief, that’s all that matters. Objectivity has no dominion in the land of women.
85.
It’s all about perceptions. If she perceives you as her best available option—you are.
86.
If a woman relaxes her boundaries, she’s into you. If she reinforces them, she’s not.
87.
If she’s really into you, she’ll find a way. If not, she’ll find an excuse.
88.
When she says she isn’t ready for a relationship, she really means she isn’t ready for a relationship with you.
89.
Women always make time for the men they desire, even when “busy.”
90.
When a woman has genuine desire, she will make it obvious; there is no guesswork.
91.
When a woman truly loves, admires, and respects her man, other men become invisible.
92.
To command masculine excellence and stand out as a high-value man in the modern dating market, you must bring the totality of presence. This means being a well-rounded, balanced, complete man.
93.
If you’re her best option, you’re her only option.
94.
To be the prize, you gotta be the prize.
95.
Hypergamy is your opportunity to win, not wither. So use it to grow, not grovel. It will make shine… if you let it.
96.
The best way to attract the woman of your dreams is to become the man of your dreams.
97.
Before you compete, you must be complete.
“You can’t focus on winning her until you focus on winning you. So, make your mission—not your woman—your priority, because a woman should only be a complement to your life, not the focus. Life, then wife—not the other way around. If you’re afraid to lose her, you already have.”
— The God Pill
98.
Most men will sleep with most women, but most men won’t wife most women.
99.
A man doesn’t have to respect a woman to commit to her, but a woman will not remain with a man she doesn’t respect.
100.
Getting a man is easy for most women, but keeping a high-value man is hard; getting a woman is hard for most men, but keeping a woman is easy for a high-value man.
101.
For men, the challenge isn’t finding a quality woman; it’s finding any woman. For women, the challenge isn’t finding a man; it’s finding a quality man.
102.
Like women, men rarely love unconditionally. At a minimum, a man must find her agreeable and physically attractive before considering her a serious option.
103.
Women want quality; men want variety. Women crave the best man; men crave the most women.
104.
Men chase beauty; women chase lifestyle.
105.
Men penetrate, and women receive; when you wait for her to make the first move, you aren’t penetrating; you are receiving.
106.
A man who is “allowed” to lead isn’t leading; he’s following her lead.
107.
Attractive men lead; attractive women follow.
108.
Be in control, not controlling; be dominant, not domineering; disagree, but don’t be disagreeable; always be firm, but fair—kind not easy.
109.
Women who freely post sexy pics on social media “wear the pants” in the relationship. And when you let them wear the pants, they take them off.
110.
No man who respects himself and his woman will ever share her. But if she’s sharing on social media, he is too.
111.
Privacy is her gift to herself; modesty is her gift to me.
“Honesty is good, transparency is not; women want the truth, they don’t want full disclosure. Relationships are built on trust, not transparency. So demonstrate, don’t explicate.”
— The God Pill
112.
Mystery leads to curiosity. Curiosity leads to imagination. Imagination leads to feelings. Feelings lead to desire. And desire sparks attraction.
113.
Predictability equals boredom, and boredom kills desire.
114.
Never tell her everything.
115.
Show her that you love her, not that you need her.
116.
For most men, the issue isn’t whether they care enough; it’s caring too much.
117.
Care less but don’t be careless—she still gotta know you care.
118.
In any relationship, the person with the most authority is the one who needs the other least; if you’re not prepared to walk away, you can’t lead.
119.
If you are afraid to lose her, you already have.
120.
Give her the gift of missing you.
“Familiarity breeds contempt and absence makes the heart grow fonder. So use absence to increase respect and honor. Give her the gift of missing you. If you are afraid to lose her, you already have.”
— The God Pill
121.
A woman is happiest when she invests in a man she loves, admires, and respects—not when he invests in her.
122.
A woman wants to be pedestalized by other men, not her man.
123.
Genuine desire is sparked when your woman does nice things for you, not when you do nice things for her.
124.
The beta male is concerned about how to please his woman; the alpha male is concerned his woman won’t please him.
125.
The man she loves will only love her on his terms.
126.
Give less, and she will respect you more.
127.
Attention for women is like sex for men. Stop giving it away for free.
128.
A woman who gives free sex isn’t valued; a man who gives free attention isn’t respected.
129.
When men get free sex, they don’t commit; when women get free attention, they friendzone.
130.
Women confuse sexual attention for long-term retention.
131.
What is an erection? Full attention.
132.
Sex for men is about sensation, then feeling. For women, it is about feeling, then sensation.
133.
Women are like cats: the more attention you give, the more they want to be left alone. But give less, and they come for more.
134.
Only one orgasm is required for procreation, and it’s not hers.
“In their quest to please their woman, most men pacify themselves into the ultimate sissies. They try so hard to be the man she wants that they neglect to be the man she needs. They are so eager to stoke the flames of her continued approval, validation, and affection that they succeed only in doing the very things that snuff it out. They lose sight of themselves and, in so doing, discover that their woman has also lost sight of them. And then comes the rude awakening: one day, the man jolts from his slumber to discover she has left him, and he is amazed that all his efforts were in vain. Don’t be this guy.”
— The God Pill
135.
A man’s value is independent of his woman; a woman’s value is dependent on her man.
136.
A man’s value is based on what he creates and who he becomes; a woman’s value is based on the quality and caliber of man she can attract.
137.
A woman is designed to be an extension of her man; a man is not designed to be an extension of his woman.
138.
A woman wants to be the princess in your fairy tale; she doesn’t want you to be the princess in hers.
139.
A woman wants to be a sidekick in your adventure; she doesn’t want you to be the sidekick in hers.
140.
A woman doesn’t want to be your strength; she wants you to be her strength.
141.
A woman must be feminine and supportive of her man’s ambition, not her own. She is to be a helper, not a hindrance.
142.
Attraction is like art: you have the ability to create it… or you don’t.
143.
The opposite of attraction is not repulsion; it’s indifference.
144.
Genuine desire is ignited under a spirit of freedom, not compulsion.
145.
Just like most men are invisible to most women, unattractive women are invisible to most men.
146.
Just like younger men are useless to most women, older women are useless to most men.
147.
Men don’t want older women; they want a woman to grow old with.
148.
With age, women wane, and men gain.
149.
Hypergamy is the engine of the female economy; your value provides its fuel.
150.
When a woman pays her bills, it’s exceptional; when a man pays her bills, it’s expected.
151.
Fast women come with slow problems.
“Be wary of single mothers. No man wants to raise another man’s seed. Children add an unnecessary layer of complexity and liability to your life. If you choose to enter that arrangement, make sure it’s done knowingly, willingly, and with full awareness and acceptance of the implications, pitfalls, and dangers. Discernment is critical, and awareness is imperative. Never complicate your life and justify why. I pity the fool who doesn’t understand what he’s getting into.”
— The God Pill
152.
A hungry grizzly will go after the man with a child every time. Not only will he be slower, more distracted, and easier to catch, but he comes with a free side.
153.
If she puts her children first, she’s just not that into you.
154.
You can please some of the women all of the time, you can please all of the women some of the time, but you can’t please all of the women all of the time.
155.
Women want the authority of men, the privilege of liberals, the responsibilities of children, and the accountability of infants… and young men today are no different.
156.
Any movie you’d rather not be watching together is a chick flick.
157.
Women don’t feel safe with a man who carries a firearm; men don’t feel safe without one.
158.
There is a groupie for every male endeavor—even World of Warcraft.
159.
If there are four chairs in a room, and only three are mentioned, do not assume ignorance of the fourth.
160.
Flawed application is not the fault of the information; it is the fault of the individual.
161.
There is validity in generality.
162.
The Red Pill is about actuality, not morality.
163.
The Red Pill is not something to be corrected; rather, it is a conception to be perfected.
164.
Red Pill truth isn’t invented; it’s discovered.
165.
Red Pill truth will either attract a strong mind or offend a weak one.
166.
The Red Pill is to make you better, not bitter; so let it build you, not break you.
167.
Once you take the Red Pill, it is impossible to go back.
168.
Ignorance is bliss, but awareness is imperative.
SECTION III: Masculinity
“Be calm and non-reactive. Control your voice tone, body language, and energy. Don’t get overly excited or hysterical. Remain measured and deliberate in both word and action. Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.'”
— The God Pill
169.
In its simplest, most distilled form, masculinity is the art of being a man.
170.
The default position of modern society is that conventional masculinity is fundamentally broken, dangerous, toxic, and wrong.
171.
There’s no such thing as toxic masculinity. If it’s toxic, it ain’t masculinity.
172.
Masculinity is 100% natural and non-toxic.
173.
The measure of a man is his ability to create more resources than he consumes.
174.
The more you perform, the more you are expected to perform; the more you do, the more you are expected to do.
(See Luke 12:48)
175.
With great responsibility comes great power.
176.
Masculinity is not determined by external forces but by internal convictions.
177.
It’s our convictions that make us men.
178.
Remain steadfast and strong, be sober-minded, and endure always.
179.
Men don’t cry over spilled milk; they instead focus unemotionally on how to get more milk—or whether they even needed milk in the first place.
180.
We expect life to be something it isn’t because we never had a father to tell us what it is—namely, that it’s a roller coaster ride of hardship, trial, and tribulation.
181.
Maturity is accepting the world for what it is, not crying about what it isn’t.
182.
Temper your expectations.
“The future doesn’t exist. The past doesn’t exist. Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow is here. So all we have is right now: the present. Everything else is an illusion.”
— The God Pill
183.
Your past is a figment; its only home is in your imagination; its only power is the power you give it.
184.
We can’t change our past, but we can change its meaning.
185.
Embrace your past trauma, present predicament, and future battles like a man.
186.
You may not be responsible for your past, but you are responsible for your future.
187.
Your past may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility.
188.
No matter where you go, there you are. You take “you” with you.
189.
Until you accept it, you cannot defeat it; until you embrace it, you cannot escape it.
190.
A temporary setback does not equal permanent defeat.
191.
Delay your emotions; don’t deny them. Control your emotions lest they control you. Don’t let the warfare within you become the warfare around you.
192.
Emotionalism leads to irrational rationalizations.
193.
The opposite of emotionality is accountability.
194.
You’re only allowed to cry when Old Yeller dies.
“Emotionalism is when a man allows his feelings and emotions (feminine conditioning) to supersede logic and reason (masculine sensibilities). Anything a man does to change the way he feels that isn’t logical is, by default, emotional.”
— The God Pill
195.
A man who can’t handle constructive criticism and sound advice is effeminate.
196.
A goldfish doesn’t know about the land, just like a feminine man doesn’t know he’s feminized.
197.
The feminine shrinks from challenge; the masculine embraces it.
198.
Men exist to overcome adversity, not to be overcome by it.
199.
Men do what they don’t want to do when they don’t want to do it, and when they say they’re going to do it.
200.
Without pain, there can be no pleasure; without adversity, there can be no advantage; without trial, there can be no triumph; without affliction, there can be no ascension. And this is by design.
201.
“When men embrace masculinity, they honor God—because when men act like men, they reflect His image back at Him.”
202.
Most men don’t need a woman—they are a woman.
203.
A boy raised by a single mother becomes a reflection of her inadequacies.
204.
A boy raised by a single mother doesn’t grow up until his mother dies.
205.
Weak men create masculine women, and strong men create feminine women. Behind every masculine man is a feminine woman, and behind every masculine woman is an effeminate man.
206.
When you drill it down on a deep enough level, there is no “game,” only the masculine and feminine and the interplay of polarity between them.
207.
In the absence of masculinity, women become masculine.
208.
A woman left to her own devices invites feminine chaos; it is incumbent on us, as men, to provide masculine structure.
209.
The open loop of feminine chaos is perfected by masculine structure.
210.
Some feel the concepts of “alpha” and “beta” are more conceptual than concrete, more abstract than actual, but that doesn’t invalidate these terms as useful descriptors—everything else is just semantics.
211.
“Alpha” and “beta” are functional descriptors of complex behaviors.
212.
If the mention of “alpha” triggers you, you’re not alpha; a genuine alpha is too busy being alpha.
213.
It’s not what you say or do that makes you alpha or beta, but how you do it.
214.
If you walk like an alpha, talk like an alpha, and think like an alpha—you’re alpha.
215.
Alpha is as alpha does.
216.
An introverted alpha is still alpha.
217.
An alpha is monogamous by choice, not necessity.
218.
Are you going your own way, or were you sent your own way?
219.
Authenticity does not mean being yourself.
220.
A man whose children are his world is effeminate.
221.
No man should ever hit a woman. But every man has a right to defend himself.
222.
Respect is the unspoken man code.
223.
The respectable deserve respect.
224.
It’s hard to act like a king when you don’t feel like a king.
225.
Congruency of character is critical.
226.
Men play to win.
227.
Age does not a man make.
“Your mission will set you up for the rest of your life, not your woman, not your friends. If friendships come, count them as blessings; if they don’t, rejoice and be glad in it—a man is more than the sum of his friendships.”
— The God Pill
SECTION IV: Christianity
228.
Christianity is no excuse for complacency.
229.
Work as though it all depends on you; trust as though it all depends on God.
230.
Often, God helps us after all we can do.
231.
Live each day as if it were your last, but be prepared if it isn’t.
232.
If you have time to sit around and whine about your life, you’re blessed.
233.
God doesn’t owe you anything.
234.
Strip yourself of all sense of entitlement before the Lord.
235.
Rejoice that with God all things are possible, but that doesn’t mean all things are probable.
236.
God doesn’t always give us what we want, but He always gives us what we need—even when it’s not what we want.
237.
God’s will is always consistent with His character.
238.
Life isn’t always fair, but God is.
“The older I get, the more I recognize that God’s will is all that matters, and the less I cherish mine.”
— The God Pill
239.
To believe you can lose your salvation, you must first believe you have earned it.
240.
God determines our salvation; we determine our damnation.
241.
If you’re genuine, God won’t let you turn your back on Him, but sometimes, you won’t know if you’re genuine until you turn your back.
242.
God doesn’t want empty works; He wants an undivided heart.
243.
We don’t respect God because we love Him; we love Him because we respect Him.
244.
Don’t conform Scripture to your reality; conform your reality according to Scripture.
(See 2 Pet. 1:19)
245.
Measure your experience by the Word, don’t measure the Word by your experience.
(See 2 Pet. 1:19)
246.
As above, so below: spiritual lessons have earthly parallels.
247.
Christianity satisfies the simple mind, the intellectual mind, the philosophical mind, and the spiritual mind.
248.
Christianity will appeal to a strong mind or offend a weak one; truth sounds like hate to those who hate truth.
249.
Don’t confuse fallible interpretation with God’s infallible revelation.
250.
Don’t measure a perfect God by His imperfect representatives.
251.
Not going to church because of the hypocrites is like not going to the gym because of fat people.
252.
Christianity is perfect; Christians are not.
253.
If a worker is worthy of his wages, how much more is the one who works for God?
254.
Tithing should be done under conviction, not compulsion; it is a matter of the heart, not the law.
255.
Emotional investment does not equal spiritual commitment.
256.
Intellectual acquiescence does not equal spiritual assent.
257.
Sin against a perfect and infinite God demands a perfect and infinite payment.
258.
The majority enjoys McDonald’s, but that doesn’t mean it’s a healthy choice for your mind, body, spirit, or soul—narrow is the way.
259.
The Enemy is sneaky; he offers you a healthy serving of veggies (truth), but all it takes is a side of Monsanto-based corn syrup (deception), and things become deadly fast.
260.
Take hold of the bread of life; you are what you eat.
261.
Word before the world; what you focus on, you become.
262.
Meekness isn’t weakness; it’s strength under control.
263.
Tolerance does not equal acceptance. Don’t mistake patience for passivity.
264.
God is exclusive, not inclusive.
265.
Tattoos are a permanent solution to a temporary desire.
266.
We all worship something; it’s just a matter of who… or what.
267.
God is all doesn’t mean we are God.
268.
Our God is their God, but their god is not our God.
269.
Progressive is the new regressive.
“When I am faithless, He is faithful.”
— The God Pill
SECTION V: Personal Development
“The God Pill is not about whining and complaining and hating on women. It’s about what’s wrong with the world and how I will adapt and overcome as a man to give myself the best chance in life moving forward. I’m not going to blame others; I’m going to look inward and ask myself: what must I do to succeed?”
— The God Pill
270.
Focus on progress, not problems. If you’re not growing, you’re dying. If you’re not progressing, you’re regressing. Be exceptional, not acceptable. Do what is right, not what is popular.
271.
Rather than use tribulation as kindling for despair, use it as fire for the furnace of transformation.
272.
Limited belief will never unlock unlimited potential.
273.
Many men who believe they will succeed still fail, but very few men who think they will fail succeed.
274.
Success is as much about forgetting the wrong things as it is about remembering to do the right things.
275.
It doesn’t matter how fast you drive. If you’re heading in the wrong direction, you’ll never get to where you’re going.
276.
Instead of imagining all the scenarios where a lesson isn’t true, focus on all the scenarios where it is true, and you might learn something.
277.
Most men consciously adhere to ideas that align with what they subconsciously believe.
278.
We need two lives: one to learn everything and one to execute everything we’ve learned.
279.
Experience is the best teacher… so pay attention!
280.
Common sense isn’t common. When policy and procedure trump common sense, you know you’re in trouble—learn to think outside the one-dimensional box.
281.
An educated fool is still a fool.
282.
Get rid of the news. The news is not meant to inform you but to influence you.
283.
A man who hits the grindstone every day, regardless of how he feels, will always outperform the man who only grinds when he feels like grinding.
284.
Your wallet is your work. Your work is your worth. If your wallet is empty, you have work to do.
285.
Do the hard work—even when it sucks.
286.
Getting in shape is like playing World of Warcraft—the higher your achievement, the more difficult each subsequent level is to achieve.
287.
Physical incompetency, weakness, and neglect are outward manifestations of inward sin.
288.
There was a time when average meant “middle of the road.” Now it means weak, overweight, and underperforming.
289.
Most men spend their lives doing what they don’t want to do, when they don’t want to do it, for people they don’t want to do it for so they can buy things they don’t need, to impress people they don’t know, who don’t even care.
290.
Who you keep out of your life is just as important as who you let in.
291.
Omit needless people.
292.
Friendships are built on commonalities; when the commonalities are gone, cut them loose.
293.
You can help some of your friends all of the time, you can help all of your friends some of the time, but you can’t help all of your friends all of the time.
294.
Life is dynamic, not static.
295.
Money can’t buy happiness, but it can make you happier.
296.
Luck counts, but you can’t count on luck.
297.
Luck favors the lucky.
298.
As I teach, so I learn.
299.
Pursue excellence, and excellence will find you.
300.
Winners look internally; losers look externally.
301.
It’s better to have tried and failed than to have never tried at all.
302.
Be not a dreamer only but a doer.
303.
It’s not knowing what to do; it’s doing what you know. So focus on progress, not problems. Pain is inevitable, but suffering is voluntary. Stop thinking and start doing.
304.
If you want satisfaction, finish your business. Because when there’s no unfinished business, you can leave this world satisfied.
“A common misconception among young men occurs when they compare themselves to their peers. They say, ‘I’m better looking than that guy,’ or ‘I’m more talented than this guy.’ However, your competition is not the men in your neighborhood, town, or city—it’s the World Wide Web. So, whether you’re looking to publish your book, become a YouTube sensation, or get the girl, you are not competing against your peers but against the top… and cream always rises to the top.”
— The God Pill
SECTION VI: Marriage/LTR & Family
“When, through the power of the Spirit, husbands take on the sacrificial initiative of Christlike masculine headship, spirit-filled women are empowered to curb their hypergamous imperatives and yield authority to their husbands.”
— The God Pill
305.
The order of operations: God in Christ > Christ in man > man over woman > woman over children.
306.
The role of a husband in a marriage is to take what is beautiful and make it good, but the more attractive she is, the more challenging it is to make her good.
(This is what God does in Gen. 1.)
307.
If a man fears his head, which is God, how much shall a woman fear her head, which is man?
308.
When the wife respects her husband, her daughter learns to respect her father and her future husband.
309.
Teach your sons to be men before the world teaches them to be women.
310.
The Public “Fool” System is a last resort. Your child’s education is not only your parental duty; it’s your moral obligation. Because bad company corrupts good character.
311.
She doesn’t respect you because she loves you; she loves you because she respects you.
312.
She is to be a helper, not a hindrance.
313.
Loving your wife means being strong, firm, and in charge—and not giving her what she wants… but needs.
314.
True love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a serviceable act.
315.
A man loves his wife via strong, dominant, masculine headship; a woman loves her husband by being respectful, feminine, and submissive to said headship. It also helps if she’s quiet.
316.
The reality is that women crave power and authority without responsibility. The irony is that once they have authority, they become miserable.
317.
If you don’t lead your marriage, your wife will lead you to divorce.
318.
Relationship balance is found in dynamic polarity, not 50/50 equality.
319.
What do you call a 50-50 marriage? A homosexual union.
320.
Marriages are not 50/50; they are 100/100. But a man’s 100 is not a woman’s 100. Men and women are not equal; they are complementary.
321.
A woman with a superior man has an equal relationship.
322.
If a woman sees you as superior, her desire will be for you.
323.
For when she is weak, then she is strong.
324.
Marriages are built on trust, not transparency.
325.
Your insecurities will ruin your relationship—be careful!
326.
The game doesn’t change once you’re married.
327.
The things you did to get the girl are the things you must do to keep her.
328.
Marriage is no insulation against the feminine imperative; if the relationship isn’t growing, it’s dying.
329.
Your faith-based marriage is only as strong as your wife’s conviction to her faith, and that faith is challenged by a feminocentric society that subverts and usurps conventional masculinity.
“When it comes to contract marriage, discernment is critical, and awareness is imperative. If you can enter the agreement knowingly, willingly, and with full understanding of the implications, pitfalls, and dangers—that’s one thing. But if you’re ignorant—watch out. Proper vetting is key. Heed her actions, not her words, and be wary of red flags. Remember: damage control is a losing battle; prevention is the best medicine. With a keen sense, high social acuity, and the sure footing of God’s Word, it’s possible to mitigate risks. So stay vigilant. Date long. Marry slow. And never marry until you are certain you can withstand divorce.”
— The God Pill
330.
God desires a covenant, not a contract.
331.
A certificate does not a marriage make.
332.
Is she after the ceremony or matrimony? Does she want the marriage or the man?
333.
Never marry until you are certain you can withstand divorce.
334.
Repentance is the prerequisite to forgiveness. If she’s hard-hearted, there’s nothing to forgive. And if there’s nothing to forgive, forgiveness cannot be received, thus rendering it void ab initio.
335.
Sometimes forgiveness means putting the past behind you and moving on; sometimes, moving on means putting the relationship behind you.
336.
Forgiveness does not equal cohabitation.
337.
A man must learn to be content in solitude before being in a contented marriage.
338.
Proper masculine headship is not only your duty; it is your best preventative medicine.
339.
If the marriage isn’t growing, it’s dying.
SECTION VII: NOFAP/Addiction
“I collected a lot of porn. I thought I was amassing some wonderful database of pleasure. But I can’t remember ever actually going back. The compelling part is the new star, the novel video, the novel act.”
— Anonymous
“The Gorilla is in the driver’s seat controlling the vehicle when you’re a young man. Then when you’re middle-aged, he’s in the passenger seat, only bothering you here and there. And several years later, he’s finally in the back seat, where he belongs.”
— George Bruno
340.
The Lord makes wise the simple: It doesn’t take a Ph.D., MBA, or LGBTQIA+ to understand that porn addiction is real.
341.
Porn addiction is not about pleasure; it’s about pain. It’s rooted in anguish, not gratification; suffering, not satisfaction. Recovery entails healing a wound rather than simply breaking a habit.
342.
Every time a man uses pornography, he enters a feminine state. Why? Because he is led by feelings and emotions rather than logic and reason.
343.
You shall set no wicked thing before your eyes; your brain doesn’t know the difference between a sexy billboard, Sears catalog, Instagram… or hardcore porn.
344.
Porn addiction is just an overvaluation of the unknown.
345.
God is the only accountability partner you need.
346.
What do monkeys and porn addicts have in common? They both play with bananas.
347.
No one knows the day or hour. So stay vigilant and be on guard. Don’t let the Lord catch you with your pants down.
348.
“Lord, how many times shall I relapse and pick myself up? Up to seven times?” The Lord answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”
(See Prov. 24:16; Matt. 18: 21-22)
“Looking back, I realized that all the times I would go a day without looking at porn and then screw up the next day or a week without looking at porn and screw up the next week, I felt like a failure. But I was like—it wasn’t a failure; I was practicing the skill of saying no, and it’s a practiced skill. And the more I did it, the better I got. So I began to see myself saying no more often and in tougher situations, and that was one of the most incredible things to see for me—that my brain was healing—and I think it’s a good sign for people if they can learn to say no.”
— Zack Carter
SECTION VIII: The Reality Check Formula
“Fairness means you get an opportunity; fairness does not mean you get an outcome. If hard work is all that’s required, we would all be guaranteed success. But hard work only gets you to the dance; it doesn’t guarantee a top spot. Hard work gets you the tryout; it doesn’t guarantee a position on the team. Hard work earns you an interview; it doesn’t guarantee a job. So, be strong and courageous, and run with endurance the race that is set before you, knowing that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. For God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love Him.”
— The God Pill
349.
Belief doesn’t guarantee success, but you must believe to succeed.
350.
Hard work doesn’t guarantee reward, but you must work hard to be rewarded.
351.
Action doesn’t guarantee results, but you must take action to get results.
352.
A consistent lifting routine doesn’t guarantee Olympian status, but you must lift consistently to become an Olympian.
353.
Quitting porn doesn’t cure sex addiction, but you must quit porn to cure your addiction.
354.
Tight game doesn’t guarantee you’ll attract a woman, but tight game is attractive.
355.
Christian values don’t guarantee a faithful woman, but you must have Christian values to keep her faithful.
356.
Proper leadership doesn’t guarantee a lasting marriage, but you must lead properly for your marriage to last.
357.
Brushing your teeth doesn’t guarantee dating success, but you must brush your teeth to date successfully.
358.
Can He? Absolutely. Will He? I don’t know; only God knows.
“In our modern time, equality is nothing more than a pretense. Equality is defined by what? Outcome? No. We have equality of opportunity, but there is not—and never will be—equality of outcome.”
— The God Pill