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"All men desire peace, but very few desire those things that make for peace."
— Thomas à Kempis

So you say that you want peace, do ya?

Then, stay away from so-called "strong and independent" ambitious women—

—because these women are more likely to be masculine, assertive, argumentative, and contentious—the type of women who will make you want to live in a desert... or on the corner of a housetop.

But men of abundance avoid these women—they opt for TRANQUILITY over turmoil.

They crave a SANCTUARY, not a storm.

They want a HELPER, not a hindrance.

They value COOPERATION, not competition.

They seek RESPECT, not ridicule.

They desire PEACE.

Men with OPTIONS avoid "strong and independent" women, because attractive women don't behave like attractive men.

Again, attractive women don't behave like attractive MEN.

Remember

👉 Men settle where they find PEACE. 👈

You can hang your hat on it. 😉

"An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, But she who shames him is like rottenness in his bones."
— Proverbs 12:4 (NASB 1995)

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Men are no strangers to conditions, requirements, and personal biases, just like women.

Namely, men don't want a "strong," independent woman; they want an agreeable one (1 Peter 3:4). They desire a feminine and submissive woman (Tit. 2:4-5; Col. 3:18-19) who is cooperative and pleasant (Gen. 2:18; Eccles. 9:9; Prov. 31:29). She must be youthful, beautiful, and pure, not promiscuous (Gen. 24:16; Esth. 2:2; 1 Kings 1:2; Esth. 2:7; Prov. 5:19; 2 Sam. 11:2; Tit. 2:5; 2 Cor. 11:2). She must respect her husband (Eph. 5:33) and submit to him in all things (Eph. 5:22-24). Moreover, she should be a helper, not a hindrance (Prov. 14:1).

The truth is, in our sin-fallen nature, we 👉 ALL 👈 have conditions.

Women have conditions, men have conditions—

—EVERYBODY HAS CONDITIONS

Conditions are a fact of life.

Idealistic love for love's sake exists only in Disney fairytales—

—and most of those are gay anyway.

"Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved by a woman. That's not to say women can't love men. It's to say that love is a bonus to, not the incentive for, a woman to marry."
— Rollo Tomassi

✠ P.S. If women keep testing and winning, it is because your frame does not hold under pressure. When masculine authority softens, feminine control fills the vacuum. The Kingdom Council 🏛️ trains you to reestablish frame and navigate intergender dynamics without submission. Because power never disappears—it only changes hands.

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