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Do You Hate Women?

September 15, 2024 by Ryan M. Maes Leave a Comment

“Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”
— Master Yoda

Listen…

Women can sense your NEGATIVITY a mile away—

—and it REPELS them.

And the more you repel women, the ANGRIER you become—

—and the angrier you become, the more you REPEL women, and so on.

It’s a vicious circle, a negative feedback loop—a SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY.

This DOWNWARD SPIRAL feeds upon itself and compounds, TRAPPING you in a perpetual vortex of misery, despair, frustration, and LONELINESS…

…and a lonely, desperate, angry man is an UNATTRACTIVE man.

So, don’t be a “neckbeard” and let 👉 “RED PILL RAGE” 👈 consume you.

It’s up to you to BREAK the cycle. 💪

Whoever has ears, let them HEAR.

“A man who loves women is loved by women.”
— Zan Perrion

“As a lily among brambles, so is my love among the young women.”
— Song 2:2, ESV

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You’ve Leveled Up, But Can You Win the Game?

August 22, 2024 by Ryan M. Maes Leave a Comment

A man embodying the "totality of masculine presence."

“Fairness means you get an opportunity; fairness does not mean you get an outcome. If hard work is all that’s required, we would all be guaranteed success. But hard work only gets you to the dance; it doesn’t guarantee a top spot. Hard work gets you the tryout; it doesn’t guarantee a position on the team. Hard work earns you an interview; it doesn’t guarantee a job. So, be strong and courageous, and run with endurance the race that is set before you, knowing that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. For God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love Him.”
— The God Pill

You’ve done the HARD WORK, have you?

You’ve made something of yourself.

Your money, muscles, game, and faith are on point.

You’ve leveled up mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually—

—and you’ve become the 👉 BEST 👈 version of yourself.

You’ve never felt better!

Here’s the BAD NEWS:

Your journey has only just BEGUN…

All your hard work only gets you to the TRYOUTS—

—but you do not get the prize; you do not get the girl.

You are only “prequalified” to enter the competition against all the other hopeful men who ALSO qualify.

Now, pause a moment—

—and let that sink in…

All the strenuous labor…

All the TIME, EFFORT, and ENERGY…

All the self-sacrifice, leveling up, and ACHIEVEMENT…

All the toil, struggle, CREATING, and BECOMING—

—and now you are merely… COMPETING?

That’s right—you’re just a “CONTENDER.”

Welcome to the big leagues.

Let the Games Begin! 🏆

“The fact that a car has wheels does not motivate anyone to buy a car. This is because we expect cars to come with wheels. You do not secure a sale by providing wheels with your car; however, a car without wheels significantly demotivates anyone from buying. You functionally ensure that you will not secure a sale by not providing wheels with your car. Providing wheels does not help you, but not providing wheels absolutely hurts you.”
— Dr. Orion Teraban, PsycHacks

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Meekness Is Not Weakness

May 31, 2024 by Ryan M. Maes

“Anybody can become angry—that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.”
― Aristotle

Men today are REDEFINING terms.

They are saying that Jesus was the MEEKEST man alive—

—and what they mean by this is that He’s some sort of SISSY, some kind of Gandhi, some type of Buddhist whipping boy—”you can hit me, but I’ll never fight back.”

“I’ll NEVER raise my hand.”

It’s always this soft, LIMP-WRISTED nonsense.

These individuals frequently misquote verses about “turning the other cheek.”

“Most morality is cowardice in the guise of morality.”
— Friedrich Nietzsche, German philosopher

They become PACIFISTS because they think that’s what meekness is—

—and that’s NOT what meekness is.

Meekness is not weakness.

Meekness is strength under control.

Again, meekness isn’t weakness; it’s strength UNDER CONTROL.

Meekness is a man who can CRUSH YOU 💪, but he’s got enough CONTROL over his spirit and emotions that he won’t.

He could, but he WON’T.

The Bible says, “Be ye angry, and sin not” (Eph. 4:26).

Our Lord Jesus experienced anger, and yet He was WITHOUT sin (Heb. 4:15).

He spoke as one with 👉 AUTHORITY 👈 (Matt. 7:23)—always HUMBLE yet CONFIDENT, PATIENT yet RESOLUTE.

—and that’s where the VIRTUE lies.

Never mistake Christ’s TOLERANCE for ACCEPTANCE—

—or His PATIENCE for PASSIVITY.

“Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.”
— Prov. 16:32, ESV

“Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.”
— Matt. 10:28, ESV

Related: “God, Manliness, and Muscular Christianity“
Related: “A Time & A Place“

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Are You an Ignorant Idiot or an Educated Fool?

April 13, 2024 by Ryan M. Maes

“It doesn’t matter how smart or reasonable you are. If the opposition is too stupid to understand, you’ll never win. So do not speak in the hearing of fools, for they will despise the good sense of your words. If Jesus couldn’t convince them, neither will you.”
— The God Pill

The Bible warns that “everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19), and that “the way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice” (Prov. 12:15).

As Lao Tzu eloquently said, “Those who know do not speak, and those who speak do not know.”

So, I ask you: Are you following the way of a WISE MAN—

—or of a FOOL? 🤪

“You cannot always be right; you should try being wrong sometimes because you might learn something.”
— Johnny Depp

The Idiot Test:

When presented with new information, do you listen to UNDERSTAND, or do you hear to RESPOND?

Is your first impulse to:

A) Point out the EXCEPTION?

or…

B) Understand the RULE?

Now, pause and EXAMINE yourself carefully: 🔎

Are you IDEALISTIC or REALISTIC?
Is your approach based on LOGIC and REASON or FEELING and EMOTION?
Do you operate on PROBABILITY and ACTUALITY or POSSIBILITY and POTENTIALITY?
Do you embrace the NORM or reach for the OUTLIER?

Consider the time-honored phrase:

💡 “The exception proves the rule.” 💡

Put another way, the exception is the REASON the rule exists.

Again, the exception demonstrates WHY we have a rule.

And rules are 👉 IMPORTANT 👈.

“To every rule there is an exception—and an idiot ready to demonstrate it. Don’t be the one!”
― Vera Nazarian, The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration

Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood:

“A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion.”
― Prov. 18:2, ESV

“If a wise man has an argument with a fool, the fool only rages and laughs, and there is no quiet.”
— Prov. 29:9, ESV

Remember:

What’s more dangerous than believing something without evidence is rejecting the evidence in favor of what you believe.

So, sit back, relax, open your mind—

—and come to 👉 LEARN 👈, not to argue.

If your mind is already made up, my job is not to convince you; it is only to deliver the message.

“Learning without thinking is useless. Thinking without learning is dangerous.”
— Confucius

“Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.”
— Prov. 17:28, ESV

“And in them is fulfilled the prophecy of Esaias, which saith, By hearing ye shall hear, and shall not understand; and seeing ye shall see, and shall not perceive: For this people’s heart is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing, and their eyes they have closed; lest at any time they should see with their eyes, and hear with their ears, and should understand with their heart, and should be converted, and I should heal them.”
— Matt. 13:14-15, KJV

Related: “Most Men Can’t Think Outside The One-Dimensional Box“
Related: “Your Friends Don’t Want Your Help“
Related: “Kick The Dust Off Your Feet“

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Bitterness and Belittlement: How Resentment and Contempt Destroy Relationships

October 14, 2023 by Ryan M. Maes

“A woman who conceals her emotions and says ‘Nothing’s wrong,’ rather than being open-hearted and honest, will begin to harbor bitter resentment. Then, after resentment has conceived, it gives birth to contempt; and contempt, when it is full-grown, brings forth death: the death of the relationship.”
— The God Pill

Resentment:

Definition: Resentment refers to the feeling of displeasure or indignation stemming from being wronged or mistreated, either perceived or actual. It often arises from an injustice or unfairness, such as being overlooked, mistreated, or wronged.

Characteristics:

Prolonged Emotion: Resentment can linger for a long time, sometimes even for years.
Passive: It is often held internally and may not be explicitly expressed.
Rooted in Past Events: Typically arises from past events or situations.
Internal Struggle: May involve holding onto grudges or not being able to let go of past hurts.

Example: Holding onto anger about a spouse’s blunder or betrayal that happened years ago.

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
— Eph. 4:32, ESV

Contempt:

Definition: Contempt is a feeling that something or someone is not worthy of any respect or approval. In relationships, it often surfaces as a sense of superiority over one’s partner and may include mockery, sarcasm, or disdain.

Characteristics:

Disrespectful: It involves looking down upon or devaluing the other person.
Active Expression: Often expressed through sarcasm, eye-rolling, mockery, or derisive language.
Destructive: Considered one of the most harmful emotions in a relationship.
Rooted in Present Perception: Arises from current feelings of superiority or disdain.

Example: Mocking your partner’s achievements or belittling their emotions.

“As the Ark of the Lord entered the City of David, Michal, the daughter of Saul, looked down from her window. When she saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, she was filled with contempt for him. She said in disgust, ‘How distinguished the king of Israel looked today, shamelessly exposing himself to the servant girls like any vulgar person might do!'”
— 2 Sam. 6:16, 20, NLT

In Relationships:

Resentment can be a silent killer in relationships as it may be held internally and not communicated, leading to a slow decay of the relationship quality.

Contempt, on the other hand, is overtly damaging and is often cited as one of the strongest predictors of divorce, according to various relationship experts, including Dr. John Gottman. It erodes the respect partners have for each other and can lead to an outright breakdown of the relationship.

Both emotions, if left unchecked, can spell certain doom for the relationship and require prudence, awareness, and a sound mind to effectively navigate through them. It’s critical to recognize and address these red flags early on to protect yourself and safeguard the relationship.

“Women, being the calculating gender, know all too well to hit the gym months prior to a break up—she’s not getting in shape for you, she’s getting ready to hit the ground running with the next guy she’ll be f*cking.”
— Rollo Tomassi

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Mastering Power: The Thin Line Between Control and Domination

October 11, 2023 by Ryan M. Maes

Men have conditions, women have conditions—everybody has conditions.

“A man establishes rules and boundaries. He is in control, not controlling; dominant, not domineering. He disagrees but is not disagreeable. He is always firm but fair—kind, not easy.”
— The God Pill

“Controlling” and “in control” are related concepts but carry different connotations and are utilized in various contexts.

“Controlling” typically refers to an overbearing manner of directing others, while “in control” implies the ability to manage or handle situations EFFECTIVELY and CALMLY.

A controlling man dictates every aspect of his relationship, whereas a man in control subtly orchestrates situations and events so that intended outcomes appear to fall into place NATURALLY, all by themselves.

A man in control is CONFIDENT and COMPETENT, while a controlling man is not.

Controlling:

Definition: Imposing influence over; issuing commands, ultimatums, and sometimes threats.
Connotation: Often has a negative implication, stemming from insecurity or doubt, suggesting excessive or oppressive direction or regulation.
Example: He has a controlling personality, always dictating what others should do.

In Control:

Definition: Having the power to manage or guide; having restraint.
Connotation: Generally positive, suggesting stability, competence, confidence, and the ability to effectively lead.
Example: Even in heated arguments, he remains in control and handles situations calmly.

“Obligated compliance never leads to genuine desire.”
— Red Pill Maxim

“Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
— Eph. 5:33, ESV

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Everybody Has a Price…

September 22, 2023 by Ryan M. Maes

Men are no strangers to conditions and requirements.

Men are no strangers to conditions, requirements, and personal biases, just like women.

Namely, men don’t want a “strong,” independent woman; they want an agreeable one (1 Peter 3:4). They desire a feminine and submissive woman (Tit. 2:4-5; Col. 3:18-19) who is cooperative and pleasant (Gen. 2:18; Eccles. 9:9; Prov. 31:29). She must be youthful, beautiful, and pure, not promiscuous (Gen. 24:16; Esth. 2:2; 1 Kings 1:2; Esth. 2:7; Prov. 5:19; 2 Sam. 11:2; Tit. 2:5; 2 Cor. 11:2). She must respect her husband (Eph. 5:33) and submit to him in all things (Eph. 5:22-24). Moreover, she should be a helper, not a hindrance (Prov. 14:1).

The truth is, in our sin-fallen nature, we ALL have conditions.

Women have conditions, men have conditions—

—EVERYBODY HAS CONDITIONS!

Conditions are a FACT OF LIFE.

Idealistic love for the sake of love exists only in Disney fairytales—

—and most of those are gay anyway.

“Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved by a woman. That’s not to say women can’t love men. It’s to say that love is a bonus to, not the incentive for, a woman to marry.”
— Rollo Tomassi

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