A Collection of Posts by Ryan M. Maes...

Don't Be a "Man-Child"

By Ryan M. Maes

An obese man in a diaper holding a large jar of milk, exuding an odd and comical absurdity.

"Drop your c*cks and grab your socks!"

A woman's job is not to protect you, provide for you, or parentally invest in you.

Her job is not to take care of you.

You are not a CHILD.

You are not a BABY.

A woman wants to be the princess in your fairy tale; she doesn't want YOU 🫵 to be the princess in hers.

You must bring value to your relationship if you want to be loved, admired, and RESPECTED.

Again, you must BRING VALUE!

It's your MASCULINE DUTY 💪.

"A woman will leave you for only one reason: she thinks she can do better."
— George Bruno

If you act like a child, if you whine about life—if you're incompetent—she'll NEVER respect you the way you want her to.

And if she doesn't respect you, she can't love you.

Again, if she doesn't RESPECT you, she can't LOVE you.

Remember:

A woman must respect you 👉 BEFORE 👈 she can love you.

Make sense?

"A woman needs a rock to lean on; she doesn't want to be the rock you lean on."
— The God Pill

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Stop Seeking Approval!

By Ryan M. Maes

A man standing on a mountain crest, gazing at a vibrant sunset casting warm hues across the horizon, surrounded by the serene beauty of nature.

"An Authentic Man is non-reactive. He doesn’t let the opinions of others influence or discourage him. He is always sure of himself and his convictions because his ally is truth. He strives for excellence, not acceptance, because he knows that winners look internally, but losers look externally."
— The God Pill

Women seek approval—NOT MEN.

Women seek acceptance—NOT MEN.

Women seek validation—NOT MEN.

Your objective is to find merit in your own efforts, incentives, and values—and trust God and your internal scorecard rather than the OPINIONS of others.

Because if God is your inspiration, He becomes your VALIDATION—

—and when God is your validation, He becomes your VINDICATION.

So, strive for EXCELLENCE, not acceptance, because WINNERS look internally, but losers look externally.

Focus on the CONTROLLABLE and let go of the UNCONTROLLABLE, since pain is inevitable—

—but suffering is VOLUNTARY.

It may feel like it’s you versus the world—

—but it’s really just you versus YOURSELF.

Remember: Never let the warfare around you become the warfare WITHIN you.

"You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing everything with logic. If words control you, that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass."
— Commonly attributed to Bruce Lee

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Why 1/3 of Men in the West, Ages 18-40, Have Not Had Sex in the Last Year

By Ryan M. Maes

A timid, awkward man dressed like a court jester, with a hunched posture and a hesitant expression.

Two Reasons:

The DEMONIZATION of conventional masculinity and EMASCULATION of modern men who are failing to "launch" into adulthood. These men are programmed and encouraged to be weak, emotional, and effeminate, lacking a sense of MASCULINE DUTY and RESPONSIBILITY. This physical and spiritual "castration" is exacerbated by the social, moral, and spiritual decay of a godless culture.
The feminist push: Women today are encouraged and enabled to be MASCULINE (i.e., "strong and independent"), immodest, and promiscuous—not loyal and committed housewives. This trend is due predominately to the ANONYMITY of the internet and its power to erase geographical barriers, which allows for the FREE EXERCISE of unlimited hypergamous options.

"In the absence of masculinity, women become masculine."
— Red Pill Maxim

The Uncomfortable Truth:

Men are no longer functioning as men, and women are no longer functioning as women.

Conventionally masculine and feminine roles are being reversed.

Again—roles are being REVERSED.

The lines have been BLURRED—

—and we see this happening in real-time.

"Up is down," "down is up," "left is right," "right is left," "light is dark," "dark is light"—the sky is GREEN!

Everything is BACKWARDS.

And this is precisely what the enemy wants—to change the truth of God into a lie and turn everything UPSIDE DOWN.

"Woe to those who call evil good
and good evil,
who put darkness for light and light for darkness,
who put bitter for sweet
and sweet for bitter!"
— Isa. 5:20, ESV

In this societal shift, the WEAK, misguided, sexless men—who consciously or subconsciously support this agenda—are called “simps” because they take pleasure in unrighteousness and give approval to those who practice it (Rom. 1:32); this leads to the BREAKDOWN and DEPOLARIZATION of society.

What is the fate of these men?

"Children will oppress them, and women will rule over them" (Isa. 3:12).

Why?

Because when men become weak ➜ women begin to rule—

—and when women begin to rule ➜ men become WOMEN.

👉 Welcome to the Gynocracy! 👈

Remember: Hard times create strong men ➜ strong men create good times ➜ good times create weak men ➜ and weak men create hard times 🫵.

"Satan's greatest weapon is man's ignorance of God's Word; a woman's greatest weapon is man's ignorance of his worth."
— The God Pill

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Marry Me? Two Proposals, One Choice

By Ryan M. Maes

Fabio passionately embracing a damsel, exuding romance and intensity.

"Women despise a man who needs to be told to be dominant, told to be confident, told to be anything they have on their list of prerequisites for their intimacy."
— Red Pill Maxim

Imagine two images:

The FIRST image is of a man down on his knees, his posture submissive, earnestly gazing up at a woman—his destiny is in her hands...

After a brief hesitation, he asks, "Would you marry me?"

The SECOND image portrays a bold, daring, confident man who commands his destiny. He stands tall and assertive—chin up, chest out, shoulders back, feet shoulder-width apart. He draws his woman close, looking into her eyes as she gazes up at him.

He declares resolutely, "I'm going to marry you."

Which man do you aspire to be?

"Your girl will thank you for your steadfast devotion to your belief in yourself."
— Red Pill Maxim

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Genuine Desire: The Heart of Christian Faith

By Ryan M. Maes

Christ on the cross, a young woman kneeling at His feet in reverence and sorrow.

"God never compels us to believe in Him, follow Him, obey Him, or love Him, because genuine desire must come from the heart—and 'obligated compliance never leads to genuine desire.'"
— The God Pill

In Christianity, we recognize our inability to meet God's holy standard of PERFECTION, which is why we acknowledge Jesus's necessity for salvation.

We know we can't be saved by the imperfect lives we live; instead, we must rely on the PERFECT LIFE Christ lived.

As Christians, we strive for moral excellence, not to earn salvation—

—but because we already POSSESS IT.

Our obedience stems from GRATITUDE and a 👉 GENUINE DESIRE 👈 to serve God and others.

It's not that we have to; it's that we GET TO.

It's a PRIVILEGE—not an obligation.

Every other religion states, "I must obey to earn acceptance from God." However, Christianity alone declares, "I am accepted by God, and therefore, I obey."

"Genuine desire is sparked under a spirit of freedom, not compulsion."
— God Pill Maxim

"You cannot negotiate genuine desire."
— Red Pill Maxim

"Attraction is not a choice."
— David DeAngelo

In Christianity, it's not a "do" gospel; it's a "DONE" gospel.

It's not about what we do—

—but what Christ has already done, and we 👉 GENUINELY 👈 love Him for it—

—not because we are good—

—but because HE IS GOOD.

He is our ROOT, and we are His FRUIT.

That's why we—like Christ—can proclaim with boldness, confidence, and FULL ASSURANCE:

"IT IS FINISHED!" 💪

"Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."
— Matt. 11:29-30, ESV

➡️ Now, how can you apply this Christian "Red Pill" truth to your MARRIAGE or DATING LIFE?

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A graphic illustrating the false doctrine of faith plus works, misrepresenting salvation as requiring both faith and human effort to achieve.

Correct ✅

A graphic illustrating the relationship between faith and works in biblical salvation, showing that faith leads to salvation, which produces good works as a result.

A graphic illustrating the Five Solas of the Reformation: Sola Scriptura, Sola Fide, Sola Gratia, Solus Christus, and Soli Deo Gloria.

"For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast."
— Eph 2:8-9, KJV

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Sacred Works, Sinful Hands

By Ryan M. Maes

A stylized caricature of Kanye West, featuring exaggerated facial features and a bold artistic interpretation.

"God will still use the gifts, talents, and whatever people have to glorify His name, even if those people are not qualified themselves. God used the power of Kanye West—his resources, his voice, his popularity—and He let him do things in His name, accepting the work. God didn't say, 'Look, your works that you did don't matter; the people you affected, I don't care about that.' No, He said, 'You were sinful, so you're not getting into the kingdom, but guess what? The stuff that was done in Christ's name, that stuff still matters; it still lasts.'"
— Curt Kennedy, Pastor and Hip Hop Artist

Imagine you or a loved one received a prophecy that completely changed your life.

Imagine participating as these events unfolded.

Perhaps this individual cast a demon out of your loved one, leading you to become a BELIEVER 💪 in Christ—

—and you witnessed him performing mighty works in God's name, TRANSFORMING YOUR LIFE.

This individual may not have been genuine—his heart insincere—but his works LED YOU TO CHRIST: "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives" (Gen. 50:20).

Despite the questionable genuineness of the individual performing the acts, God does not deny the works done in His name—he denies the WORKER because his life was sinful.

"On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'"
— Matt. 7:23, ESV

In His divine sovereignty, God will still use the works done in His name to 👉 POSITIVELY 👈 impact lives, regardless of the individual performing them: "[for] we know that all things work together for good to those who love God" (Rom. 8:28).

That's what we should find ENCOURAGING: whether in pretense or truth, Christ's name was proclaimed.

As believers, we ought to care more about that—

—but we care more about the proclaimer—the person—than we do about who they're PROCLAIMING.

"For no one can lay any foundation other than the one we already have—Jesus Christ. Anyone who builds on that foundation may use a variety of materials—gold, silver, jewels, wood, hay, or straw. But on the judgment day, fire will reveal what kind of work each builder has done. The fire will show if a person’s work has any value. If the work survives, that builder will receive a reward. But if the work is burned up, the builder will suffer great loss."
— 1 Cor. 3:11-15, NLT

Screenshot of my X.com post featuring an exhortation about discernment, referencing Andrew Tate.

*Credit: Curt Kennedy

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Feeling the Pressure?

By Ryan M. Maes

A man standing on a mountaintop, gazing off into the sunset horizon, surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty.

Do you lack clarity, focus, and composure?

Are your emotions getting the better of you?

Are you facing a LIFE-ALTERING decision?

I have a rule: Take a 👉 TIME OUT 👈—don't rush it.

"Delay your emotions; don’t deny them. Control your emotions lest they control you. Don’t let the warfare within you become the warfare around you."
— The God Pill

Now, slow down... take a deep breath...

Respond, don't react.

There is WISDOM in the saying, "Let's sleep on it."

ALWAYS take a 24-hour "buffer period" BEFORE choosing your next move—especially when facing a crossroads, major turning point, or conflict.

This buffer will act as a HARD RESET—

—and cut through the NOISE when things get tense.

"You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing everything with logic. If words control you, that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass."
— Often associated with Bruce Lee

Come sunrise, your mind will be CLEARER because God will give you a fresh perspective: "[for] the steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new EVERY MORNING..." (Lam. 3:22-23).

"I reckon we'd all benefit from some time to clear our heads. The answer'll come to us, don't you worry. You won't solve anything like this—trust me. Go and get some fresh air, eh?"
— Otto, Final Fantasy XVI

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God Doesn't Owe You Anything...

By Ryan M. Maes

A man gazing toward the horizon, where a luminous alien pillar of light pierces the sky, radiating an unearthly brilliance.

"Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? Or does He give them the opportunity to be patient? If they prayed for courage, does God give them courage, or does He give them the opportunity to be courageous? If someone prayed for the family to be closer, do you think God zaps them with warm fuzzy feelings, or does He give them opportunities to love each other?"
— Morgan Freeman, Evan Almighty

Jesus said, "With God all things are possible."

He did not say all things are probable.

Again, POSSIBLE does not equal PROBABLE.

It's okay to be idealistic, but you must also be REALISTIC—because, ultimately, God knows what's best for you: yesterday, today, and forever!

He knows the end from the beginning.

"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you."
— 1 Pet. 5:6-7, NASB 1995

Recognize that God doesn't always give you what you WANT—

—but He always gives you what you NEED, even when it's not what you want.

So, strip yourself of all sense of entitlement before the Lord—

—because some of God's greatest gifts are UNANSWERED PRAYERS.

"God does not give us everything we want, but He does fulfill His promises, leading us along the best and straightest paths to Himself."
— Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Remember:

"Most of the grand truths of God have to be learned by trouble; they must be burned into us with the hot iron of affliction, otherwise we shall not truly receive them."
— C. H. Spurgeon

Let Us Hear the Conclusion of the Whole Matter:

Life isn't always fair, but God is.

Again: life isn't always fair—

—but GOD IS.

For we know God's will is always CONSISTENT with his character 🙏.

So take heart, because the Lord will be EASIER on you if you're TOUGHER on yourself—

—and "all things work together for good to those who love God" (Rom. 8:28).

Now go out and be STRONG—

Be BOLD and COURAGEOUS—

👉 KEEP THE FAITH 👈—

—and remain grateful in PROSPERITY and patient in ADVERSITY.

Because with God for you, who can be against you?

"Faith means trusting in advance what will only make sense in reverse."
— Philip Yancey

I Leave You With This:

"My dear brother, do you know that sometimes God works a greater wonder when he sustains his people in trouble than he would do if he brought them out of it. For him to let the bush burn on and yet not to be consumed is a grander thing than for him to quench the flame and so save the bush. God is being glorified in your troubles, and if you realise this you will be ready to say, 'Lord, heap on the loads, if it be for thy glory; give me but strength equal to my day, and then pile on the burdens; I shall not be crushed beneath them, but I shall be made to illustrate thy power. My weakness shall glorify thy might.'"
— C. H. Spurgeon, MTP 19:389

⚠️ P.S. If you're struggling with your faith or have urgent questions about God, I don't blame you. I know it was hard for me to believe the Bible with confidence and full assurance. So, if you're wrestling with serious doubts, reach out for your free one-on-one private session with me now, where you can ask me anything!

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